Valentine’s can be a confusing time for couples. While some gift-givers make the day memorable for their partners, others are notoriously bad at selecting presents. So, while you run around to find the perfect gift for your loved one this Valentine’s Day, here are some of the worst that you should steer clear of for fear of being cliched. Don’t worry though, because we’ve also got suggestions on what to buy!

Heart-shaped jewelry
You don’t need to buy a heart-shaped necklace, pendant, ring, or bracelet for someone to express your love. Not only is it glaringly common around this time, but also limited in terms of wearability. Instead, opt for classy, modern pieces that reflect your partner’s taste and personality and display how well you know them.

Candle
There’s nothing bad about candles, but they express a lack of personalization as a gift. If you’re looking for something similar, buy an essential oil diffuser. Its fragrances can be customized to your partner’s choice, and it will last much longer than a regular candle.

Home appliances
Your partner may need a vacuum cleaner or a new oven. Practical as it may appear, these appliances are certainly not romantic, making them one of the worst Valentine’s gifts. If you’d like to give them something more practical, look for a meal kit delivery service that both of you can enjoy together on a night off!

Generic gift card
A generic gift card doesn’t qualify as a romantic present. Neither does a blank card. If you’re looking for last-minute options, think of something your partner would enjoy, like a subscription to a streaming service you’d like to explore together. You may also consider a personalized card to go along with it to demonstrate your love.

Cliched gift basket
Those pre-arranged baskets of bath products, chocolates, candies, and other assorted items always grace the shelves during Valentine’s Day and can be found on sale right after. If you have a tough time deciding on just one thing to get your partner, try fun subscription box services that offer a range of products from clothes, accessories, and make-up to personalized shaving supplies, fragrances, and beverages.

Cheap flowers
Well-decorated bouquets made from the flowers your partner adores are a great way to express your love for them. But skip the pre-set bouquets on the discount rack because those scream unoriginal. If you buy a small bouquet, accompany it with another gift or a heartfelt note to personalize it.

An oversized teddy bear
If you’re not a teenager, skip the humongous teddy bear from the store. Instead, opt for something more valuable and adult-like, such as a warm, weighted blanket that’s soft to the touch and super comforting to curl up with when needed.